Think of love as an invader. The task is not to seek this foreign emotion but rather find all the barriers that you have built against it in yourself, and then break them down with self-love!

The key here isn't necessarily finding someone who can make us happy - though they might be handy when our own lives don?t work out right--what matters most are those little pieces within ourselves designed specifically so nothing good could happen without first fighting through them.

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